IT'S COMPLICATED

& CONFUSING

Hello, world, this is me, life should be fun for everyone... Jokes I'm not about to serenade you with a horrible rendition of the theme song to the Saddle Club. If you don't know what the Saddle Club is, leave this blog NOW, google 'the saddle club' and enjoy, what every little girl fantasied about in their early years. In my case, it was a little gay boys fantasy and I actually did live it, but more about that later.

Childhood TV show theme songs aside, there is some truth behind their catchy lyrics. Life should be fun for everyone, and sadly it's not for a lot of people. That is right kids, the reality that your baby boomer and gen X parents feed you is a lie. It's fucking tough out here and this is coming from a white, upper-middle-class, gay, white man who can pass as hetro..... jokes I 100% cannot pass as heterosexual.

But what even is heterosexual by today's standards, maybe I am just a flamboyant straight man. Stop judging me based on appearance, goddamit. I lost track there, my point is, the modern world is a little bit fucked up. It's messy, confusing and all sorts of complicated. As our world gets smaller and we are pushed closer together, we have to learn how to get along and It turns out, we are not that great at it.

Not all is lost in the world, I'm here to give you some hard truths to learn from and deliver a needed reality check, one you have been looking for. I know it sounds complicated, but that is just it, life is complicated. But we can navigate it together.

It's complicated and Confusing, is my gift to you... the world. An unapologetic blog where we discuss all manner of modern living or just simply a place for me to rant about the mess we call a society. It does not really matter because it's mine and you have no control here hahaha.  But for real, I'm writing this blog for the readers. I don't know about you, but I'm pretty over consuming media about how easy it is to make your life successful and how to 'live in your bliss'. If I have to hear that from one more white lady I may just go and jump off a bridge.

It's complicated and Confusing, is my gift to you... the world. I unapologetic blog where we discuss all manner of modern living or just simply a place for me to rant about the mess we call a society. It does not really matter because it's mine and you have no control here hahaha.  But for real, I'm writing this blog for the readers. I don't know about you, but I'm pretty over consuming media about how easy it is to make your life successful and how to 'live in your bliss'. If I have to hear that from one more white lady I may just go and jump off a bridge.

I will do my best, to be honest, and open about my life and learnings, to stay true to the origins of this blog. I'm a work in progress, everyone is. So learn with me and educate me when I need it. Hit me up through Instagram with and request and questions.